Picking Up Sexy Women at a Bar

So you are there with your best clothes on looking pretty good. Your hair is clean and styled, your shoes look great, everything that can be brought in line has been. Even though you say so yourself, you scrub up pretty good.

Just across the bar or club are some gorgeous sexy women - real nines or tens - and you want to meet them. 

The thing to remember is, every single guy in the room will probably go over there and say, you are beautiful can I buy you a drink? or some such comment. Sexy women are bored with this, I guarantee you. You need to go up to them and say something different, not cheesy, something that is going to differentiate you from all those other clowns.

Problem is, she knows she is beautiful. She feels elevated because she is so gorgeous looking. You need to level that playing field...you need something that is going to make her think "eh?"

So what are you going to say?

Think of a kid sister...same way that boys always tease their sister? That is exactly how you must approach these sexy women. What would you say to some little girl to bug them?

And when you actually say this line, say it in a way that you would say it to your kid sister. You must be confident, and make it look natural. No stammering, no erms and ahs, just smooth.

  

"Those shoes look alright on you, shame you can't walk in them!"

"Your face is quite nice, do those earrings cover the ugly bits?"

This is going to make sexy women choke on their drinks...you will have their attention. Press home your advantage - keep on the pressure. Keep chatting to them, but make sure you are teasing them now and again, keep up that "I see you as normal" theme.

You will know if they are enjoying it - they will laugh. If they are interested look out for sexy women touching their hair, smoothing down their dress, or the classic - lowers her head and looks up at you. If you manage to get that look, then she will be putty in your hands.

If the sexy women you are talking to touch you, this is a great sign. Make a gag about harassment! If she asks for your phone number, then make a joke about stalking.

You will have these women as putty in your hands. When you get the information you want (phone number, date) don't get too excited; act casual about it. You might phone, you might text...if she is lucky.

You might wonder why it works? Well there are a few theories. Firstly, the fact that you were different from other guys - that is important. Secondly, you are seeing her as much higher than you because she is beautiful, more like your equal. Sexy women want a guy that they can admire. Not one that will adore them, sexy women are bored with that!

On a primitive level women want a man that can protect them, that will be dominant (not in an abusive way) but a man that they can rely on to take the lead. If a man wants to worship her, then she has to be the strong one, and sexy women know they just don't need it. It is about the alpha male, and while there are many misconceptions about this, ultimately the guy that shows the good side of those alpha characteristics will always be the one that dates the sexy women.